Objectivity & Subjectivity in a relationship.. ;

In a relationship it becomes necessary that neither of the partners loose their dignity and identity irrespective of their ages, background, or any other thing.

Lust…Love…MARRIAGE..

“Curiosity is the lust of the mind,”said Thomas Hobbes of lust which is a feeling that shouldn’t be associated with love as it is too pejorative. One can and has lust for everything and anything that he sees or observes whether desirable or not.Lust therefore becomes a random yet special feeling as you harbour this for someone you like, only for a brief moment though.Lust can be special, it is at times more cherished than any-other feeling amongst those sensed by a human being.In the words of a famous author..”True love never dies for it is ‘LUST’ that fades away.Love bonds for a lifetime but lust pushes away..” Though lust is a provisional feeling it holds the secret to many successful things and beings of the present and that of the past.Lust is often if not always misinterpreted for “LOVE”. The person who harbors this feeling is the one who is deprived of the beauty of LUST and perceives an absolute erroneous stance towards the same.This is how pure, solemn and grave “LUST” is.

“Love” is an integral part of commitment which can’t be taken for granted under any circumstances no matter what. It is a feeling difficult to express in words, whether written or vocal yet some writers and poets attempt to ink it down.Love is the most intense feeling amongst all the senses of human beings.Most people say that they have “fallen in LOVE with someone or something” but in reality LOVE cannot be associated with an undesirable action of fall that is a let down.Love never lets one down it always explains and teaches us new dimensions of loving something..Love is not selfish it is just a little possessive of its belongings.
“Love” never does and can never include hatred for someone you loved irrespective of the soreness of the  wound it may have given you.Love teaches us to be selfless, generous and endlessly supportive of the amatory.

“May you always be blessed

with walls for the wind,

a roof for the rain,

a warm cup of tea by the fire,

laughter to cheer you,

those you love near you,

and all that your heart might desire.”

Daily updates.

2011/01/07

• Let the entire world bitch, shit or do whatever they please you should always concentrate on your growth and progress..

2011/01/11

• Some men have tummy’s like those of women which cannot keep anything with them-self for long…..

2011/01/15

• Some women are swines and should be left on their own even though you want to help or whatever…
  These nerds aren’t fit even for your spit……

2011/01/16

• Saw a movie after a gap of almost 2 & a half years… Was skeptical about the same but went ahead on a friends advice as SHE had seen the same.Thanks a ton “NIK” for saving those 4 hrs of mine and also my DAD’s money….  cheers..

2011/01/22

• Day of birthday celebrations, realizations of taking cause for and standing against what is wrong and which should not be tolerated..
• Hope springs from every nook and corner its up-to you to pick  ”IT” up and take cause for YOURSELF……..

2011/01/30

• “The greatness of person lay not in what he has achieved financially or in other materialistic thing but in what kind of a human he is and what is his contribution towards the betterment of society..”
  -Aakash Dhanuka.

22/03/2011
Don’t know why is this happening but the news of someone leaving has got me upset, feeling numb, sad, feeling sulky… Dont know why but ppl towards whom you have hatred are the ones for whom you feel the most. Don’t know why but I guess this is what people refer to as heavenly connect , bond.. Don’t know why still don’t know why…

Year 2011 hear I come… :D

At the beginning of each year people make resolutions, this  year tried to give it a shot.Here is my list.

1. Best of health.
2. Wealth in terms of money, wellbeing , peace , strength , satisfaction and support.
3. Car ( Chevrolet Cruze & Mercedes coupe for mom & dad ).
4. A caring, understanding, beautiful and supportive partner.
5. All monetary liabilities repaid and settled.

The week that was a real tester.

If there is something which is in distress and it also belongs to you it becomes your right & responsibility to stand for it no matter what the situation, circumstances are.Even if you have the odds against you just remember that you have the odds against you because you are even and it is time to get even with things.A true winner is a person who plays on the court and not off it.

In the war of life there will be jerks & morons halting your progress, your job is to eliminate their influence on your life and be the most successful human on the planet.

Strange jitter…….

This fall has been special, its been unusually cold, I have been wearing pullovers as the mercury seems to take a nose dive.Besides this fall has brought with it a special revival of a feeling a thing which had some how fazed from me.

This came to the fore when I questioned my brothers relationship with his friend last night.

I did not even get my usual three hours of sleep that night, I woke up at Three hundred and thirty hours in the bitter cold and started retrospection of life.The people close to me know that Aakash Dhanuka is and always will be a man of his word but I felt that i had some-where or the other let down myself and her in this process.We parted ways mutually and had promised each other that we shall stay happy, whom so ever we end up with.She kept her promise and is keeping the same with utmost allegiance and dignity, I on the other hand is the one who could not keep my word.I had promised that i shall be happy always no matter what, this wasn’t to be.

 

I could never give credit to any other woman except for my mother to have done something special for me and I despise myself for this.This is not the only reason that made me write this post on a sunday afternoon.I was puzzled last night, felt like shedding some tears and sulking on the shoulder of someone but that someone was married to someone else and was leading a happy life which I did not want to spoil.The actual thing is that I could never come to terms with the disintegration.

 

I could not sleep again until early morning at around half past five, I know the time since my brothers cellphone was kept on the side table which I checked.I woke-up at around nine in the morning confused,puzzled and wanting the answers to the  questions that had come to the fore.Determined that I was to get the answers to my questions I walked down memory lane and realized that I was actually holding on to something which had drifted away from me and that I was holding on to its footprints on the sands of time.I did not give up though, and plan to undo all the wrongs I have or may have done with immediate effect, and for starters have added three new fishes to my pond and have named them with the starting letter of her name.Their names are ‘S’teffi, ‘S’ally and “S”uzaane the latter being the most special as it shares its name mostly closely with her.

The thing that was realized by me in the process was that the respect I have towards my girl(now someone else’s) should be conferred on others of the kind whether they are known to me or not.I immensely thank that person for sharing the incident on thy blog and my brother for making me read the same.I appreciate your bravery, exemplary courage and wit to stand out in the crowd of commoners just like a diamond in a coal mine.

Thank You.

 

Hitler-the unspoken saga of the valorous hero of motherland Germany.(Part 2)

…The angst of the gallant leader did not end just here.Hitler went on to devastate the allied powers who were the reason for the humiliation faced by Germany post WW1.His intention and self belief were the source of his power and strength.Using these tools Hitler took to the world and led Germany to victory in WW2 along with the allies.The contributions of the German hero to his motherland are immense, but the credit and feelings the current German population harbour towards the Brave-heart is not only disgraceful to the “German stellar” but to the entire world.

Last month I attended a conference, a forum basically.One of my fellow participant at the event was a German National. When this person started speaking ill about “Hitler” I wanted to interrupt him and show him what Hitler meant to the Germans and that he was abusing the hardships, trouble faced by his ancestors during the rule of the allied powers.But as they say,”it is useless to throw water on a ducks back,” so I did not bother to enlighten the troubled soul.To my astonishment I was the only person in that hall with over Three hundred and fifty people who had a thing for Hitler and his greatness.The stature of Hitler’s greatness is something which cannot be communicated in words, still people like me attempt to describe the great through our writings.
The reason for the progress, prosperity of the German economy today is without doubt credited to none other than the “Great Hitler.”

Hitler-the unspoken saga of the valorous hero of motherland Germany.(Part 1)

Hitler like most other heroes is one who is still misinterpreted, misjudged and thus criticized.Never understood by his own countrymen the story of Hitler the great was a result of the suppression Germany faced on the hands of the victorious nations England, France, and so on. The restrictions imposed by the treaty of Versailles on the German federation were not just humiliating but had put an end to the very existence of the country.This was accepted without any objection by the then rulers of the country.Hitler at that time was an ordinary officer of the German army.

With time Hitler’s stars gained momentum, the situation changed leading to the birth of one of the greatest dictator and leader the world has ever seen.Hitler’s greatness can be judged from the very fact that the first thing he did on gaining power was scrapping the treaty of Versailles which to him was nothing more than a piece of paper bearing some ink.After scrapping the treaty the next immediate step taken by the chivalrous hero was regaining the other parts of his country captured by the allied powers.Hitler went on to capture the neighbouring countries of Bosnia & Herzegovina and many others.The reason for Hitler’s wrath towards the Jews was just another misinterpretation anyone could harbour towards anything.Whatever he did, he did it with purpose, with self belief.
The credit for the success of the German economy without any dispute goes to the audacious Hitler the great.

My love.

My endeavours .

I write this piece of note inorder to let the world know about the posts I have been making on my face-book wall during the past few weeks.Well the past few weeks have been quite interesting in terms of relationships, to begin with my relationship with my family was viewed by me with a  totally different perspective which opened exciting, new horizons for the future.Secondly Landmark Education gave me the opportunity of  looking at my past relationships with a totally different angle.
Then next up was the challenge of getting into full flow at my place of work, a thing which I accomplished without much hassle.There are still many  things which are to be accomplished by me in the immediate future eg. to procure the masters degree in financial management , to launch my own company which works for the betterment of other fellow  companies,businesses I deal with, or otherwise.The first and foremost thing would be to setup my company which would be one of its kind company catering to the needs of all employees in an organisation from peon to president. The other aspect to be covered will be to provide qualitative as well as well as highly efficient results to the customers in every aspect.
The other aspects touching or rather of my business would be to have a company with minimum human attrition rate and at the same time maximum customer benefit and satisfaction.