Making Flexible Scheduling Work

Like the title of the post.


I’m writing this blog post from home today. There are a lot of aspects of my job that does not require me to be in the office. Like many employees these days, a certain amount of my work can be done online.  Although I like the flexibility my employer provides by allowing me to work from home occasionally, I do prefer to be at the office. There is that interaction with my co-workers, bouncing off ideas, and overall atmosphere and energy of what McNak is all about.

If I wasn’t at the office on a regular basis, I wouldn’t get a feel of our company’s corporate culture. However, after working at McNak for nine years, I have a pretty good idea…so working from home every now and then certainly doesn’t hurt. Working from home does not work for all professions.  I believe that I wouldn’t be an effective salesperson if…

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Objectivity & Subjectivity in a relationship.. ;

In a relationship it becomes necessary that neither of the partners loose their dignity and identity irrespective of their ages, background, or any other thing.


“Curiosity is the lust of the mind,”said Thomas Hobbes of lust which is a feeling that shouldn’t be associated with love as it is too pejorative. One can and has lust for everything and anything that he sees or observes whether desirable or not.Lust therefore becomes a random yet special feeling as you harbour this for someone you like, only for a brief moment though.Lust can be special, it is at times more cherished than any-other feeling amongst those sensed by a human being.In the words of a famous author..”True love never dies for it is ‘LUST’ that fades away.Love bonds for a lifetime but lust pushes away..” Though lust is a provisional feeling it holds the secret to many successful things and beings of the present and that of the past.Lust is often if not always misinterpreted for “LOVE”. The person who harbors this feeling is the one who is deprived of the beauty of LUST and perceives an absolute erroneous stance towards the same.This is how pure, solemn and grave “LUST” is.

“Love” is an integral part of commitment which can’t be taken for granted under any circumstances no matter what. It is a feeling difficult to express in words, whether written or vocal yet some writers and poets attempt to ink it down.Love is the most intense feeling amongst all the senses of human beings.Most people say that they have “fallen in LOVE with someone or something” but in reality LOVE cannot be associated with an undesirable action of fall that is a let down.Love never lets one down it always explains and teaches us new dimensions of loving something..Love is not selfish it is just a little possessive of its belongings.
“Love” never does and can never include hatred for someone you loved irrespective of the soreness of the  wound it may have given you.Love teaches us to be selfless, generous and endlessly supportive of the amatory.

“May you always be blessed

with walls for the wind,

a roof for the rain,

a warm cup of tea by the fire,

laughter to cheer you,

those you love near you,

and all that your heart might desire.”

Year 2011 hear I come… :D

At the beginning of each year people make resolutions, this  year tried to give it a shot.Here is my list.

  1. Best of health.
  2. Wealth in terms of money, wellbeing , peace , strength , satisfaction and support.
  3. Car ( Chevrolet Cruze & Mercedes coupe for mom & dad ).
  4. A caring, understanding, beautiful and supportive partner.
  5. All monetary liabilities repaid and settled.

The week that was a real tester.

If there is something which is in distress and it also belongs to you it becomes your right & responsibility to stand for it no matter what the situation, circumstances are.Even if you have the odds against you just remember that you have the odds against you because you are even and it is time to get even with things.A true winner is a person who plays on the court and not off it.

In the war of life there will be jerks & morons halting your progress, your job is to eliminate their influence on your life and be the most successful human on the planet.

Strange jitter…….

This fall has been special, its been unusually cold, I have been wearing pullovers as the mercury seems to take a nose dive.Besides this fall has brought with it a special revival of a feeling a thing which had some how fazed from me.

This came to the fore when I questioned my brothers relationship with his friend last night.

I did not even get my usual three hours of sleep that night, I woke up at Three hundred and thirty hours in the bitter cold and started retrospection of life.The people close to me know that Aakash Dhanuka is and always will be a man of his word but I felt that i had some-where or the other let down myself and her in this process.We parted ways mutually and had promised each other that we shall stay happy, whom so ever we end up with.She kept her promise and is keeping the same with utmost allegiance and dignity, I on the other hand is the one who could not keep my word.I had promised that i shall be happy always no matter what, this wasn’t to be.


I could never give credit to any other woman except for my mother to have done something special for me and I despise myself for this.This is not the only reason that made me write this post on a sunday afternoon.I was puzzled last night, felt like shedding some tears and sulking on the shoulder of someone but that someone was married to someone else and was leading a happy life which I did not want to spoil.The actual thing is that I could never come to terms with the disintegration.


I could not sleep again until early morning at around half past five, I know the time since my brothers cellphone was kept on the side table which I checked.I woke-up at around nine in the morning confused,puzzled and wanting the answers to the  questions that had come to the fore.Determined that I was to get the answers to my questions I walked down memory lane and realized that I was actually holding on to something which had drifted away from me and that I was holding on to its footprints on the sands of time.I did not give up though, and plan to undo all the wrongs I have or may have done with immediate effect, and for starters have added three new fishes to my pond and have named them with the starting letter of her name.Their names are ‘S’teffi, ‘S’ally and “S”uzaane the latter being the most special as it shares its name mostly closely with her.

The thing that was realized by me in the process was that the respect I have towards my girl(now someone else’s) should be conferred on others of the kind whether they are known to me or not.I immensely thank that person for sharing the incident on thy blog and my brother for making me read the same.I appreciate your bravery, exemplary courage and wit to stand out in the crowd of commoners just like a diamond in a coal mine.

Thank You.